Wednesday, September 12, 2007

Dating and self esteem

How many books have you read that say improve your self-esteem and you will catch a man; you can't get anyone to love you unless you love yourself? Let me let you in on a little secret. I married very late in life at the age of 36. In the meantime, I followed all the instructions in the books and worked on my self esteem ad naseum. All I ever got out of it was a good job because I was able to sell myself very well. At the same time, I watched all my low self-esteem friends get married to all these great guys that I passed up. What's wrong with this picture?!!!!

What I discovered was that I needed to remove the blocks that prevented me from finding my soul mate. When I did that then I met and married my husband. My block was my distant relationship with my father and my fear of men in general. When I made friends with my dad and a male coworker then I lost my fear and learned that men were not so different from women.

What is your block? Let me help you find that out. Contact me through my website at wwww.brighterdays4you.com

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