Dating

What is blocking the person from entering a relationship needs to be dealt with before the fun of getting out there and dating can begin. Usually if there is problems dating, it is because of distance from the opposite sex parent. We learn how to form romantic relationships by the kind of relationship we have with our opposite sex parent. If that parent is authoritarian then we will likely mate with an authoritarian man and vice versa.
The next step is to get out there and date. Have fun, don’t take it seriously and learn the game of dating. Make use of blind dating sites and don't be afraid to make more then one contact at a time until you narrow your choice down. This can be a time of practicing wooing and of learning what type of person you are attracted to.
The last step is being aware of knowing that when there has been distance between you and your opposite sex parent you will often go hot and cold to the partner you have chosen. This is because of the fear of becoming close to the opposite sex. You don't know how to be close to the opposite sex and yet you want to hence the hot and cold. Telling the partner this helps considerably in this phase.